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writes: i've have a big problem getting over this guy that i've fancied for about two years now. the thing is as he's in my school. its hard not to bump into him. i really thought he liked me because he kept looking at me in english, smiling at me and every time i'd walk past him and his friends would turn around and look at me.so to find out how he felt i wrote to him explaining how i felt and told him if he was interested in me, phone me.he didn't phone me. ever since then i've dreaded english and assembly just in case i see him. i also always have and still do feel completely attracted to him even though i know he doesn't want me.will i ever get over him or will i stay mezmerised by him forever? stephanie 17 Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2005): You didn't make a mistake telling him you were interested. The thing about alot of guys is that they don't mature as quickly as women and they scarcely think along the same lines. They will never commincate at the same level. He probably doesn't realise that he has upset you. Maybe you should phone him. Just because he didn't phone you doesn't necessarily mean anything. He may be actually quite shy. You will never know he is not interested really unless you actually ask him.Woah! Sounds daunting but maybe catch him alone or phone him and say, ' did you ever get my note?' If he says yes, say 'I was surprised you didn't phone me' WARNING at this point you may find out that he really isn't interested (unhappy thing in life that sometimes feelings aren't mirrored by ones we have feelings for, I chased one guy for ages and it turned out he was gay!). At least you will have a genuine answer. I think the word is 'closure'. If that is the case it will help you move on and you will get over him. Believe me, experience talking here!Life is all about making mistakes, the trick is to learn from them.
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