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*ietPrincess
writes:I have a problem. my boyfriend is vietnamese and i am chinese and vietnamese. my parents are seperated and from then on, my mother hates vietnamese people. She found out about my boyfriend and shes threatening me to leave him or else she will kick me out of the house. what do i do? im not willing to give up my boyfriend AT ALL Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): Nice mother.
She's willing to lose her daughter over her own pathric predjudice.
You'd be best without people like that anywhere near you.
Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): Tell your mother that you are sorry it didnt work with your father but you are nearly a fully grown adult I dont know your age but maybe she could try to get to know him and really respect your mother by listening and not getting angry as she has gone through alot losing your father ...is it really the boyfriend issue or she making excuses to get rid of you ...have it out with your mother stand up for yourself....also have a back up plan do you have anywhere to go ? She could be afraid to lose you or that similar things will happen to you to .... try to deal with it maturely sit down with your mother ....remember she has experienced life more than you ...if you decide he is the one your soulmate then I would suggest you leave before you damadge your relationship with your mum but whatever the cost dont be disrespectful to your mum....do everything calmly .good luck
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