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writes:I've been casually seeing a guy for about 6 weeks now. While I am not terribly experienced in sex and dating, I have been using this opportunity to gain a bit of insight into boys. The few nights I went back to his place I ended up leaving at 3 or 4 in the morning because while I feel comfortable with him, I would still rather get a few hours of sleep in my own bed. The last time he seemed to express a desire for me to say the entire night. Question is, is "waking up together" essentially a euphemism for "I want morning sex?" or is there some other benefit of staying the night I'm not aware of? Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (19 August 2010):
 A friendly blowjob to round off the experience, at the very least.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (19 August 2010):
 "Banga ranga ding dong..."
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reader, person12345 +, writes (19 August 2010):
 No, waking up together just feels nice. After sharing a night of passion it's lovely to roll over and see the person you care about in the morning light and just feel like that person was there with you, all night, in your bed. You can cuddle right when you wake up and it feels amazing. And who knows, morning sex can be great fun and an awesome perk of sharing a bed! There's a very different feeling though, just having sex and cuddling in the night to having sex, spending the whole night, and cuddling in the morning. It's never "required" that you have sex. Is there something wrong with morning sex though?
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (19 August 2010):
"Waking up together" means "waking up together".
Now, "banga ranga ding dong in the dawn's early light", that's the Gentleman's Choice. Of course you have to agree.
"Banga ranga ding dong"...
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reader, daletom +, writes (19 August 2010):
I can't really identify with the experience of having sex with somebody I've only been "casually" seeing for 6 weeks - I'm guessing it was a conscious choice to say "having sex" rather than "making love". I'm mostly in agreement with "dirtball" - not long after we married and started having sex, my wife and I found that we preferred mornings for our main lovemaking. It was a great way to start a day, and the intimacy and communication during afterglow was better than bedtime lovemaking. (For the first year or so we usually did it at both times.) If you're mostly attracted to the physiological process of arousal, lust, orgasm, and coming-down then it might be less embarrassing to NOT wake up together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2010): required!!!!! that is mandatory
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 August 2010):
 No, waking up together is just what it says. Morning sex is great, and a wonderful start to the day, but the intimacy of waking up together can't be overlooked either.
Here's an example. I like to cuddle a little before going to sleep, but sleep separate from my partner. When I wake up in the morning, I like to move closer to her and maybe spoon for a while before we get out of bed. I also love it if she'll wake up and come over and sleep on my chest with my arm around her for a while before we get out of bed. It's a way to be close with eachother without the sex. It's also a perfect time to cuddle or get frisky if the mood strikes.
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