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writes:hey,actual i am in love with a guy,like hez son of my fathers friend,i dont know how to just express my feelings towards him,as i dont know much about him..if he teels everyone about me in his family so itz a really an insult for me and for my parents also.what should i do?i really love him... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx guyzz..but i didnt get any solution to my problem.
i cant express my feelings to him as i told earlier.
and i cant live like this.please help me out...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): I understand that you like the guy, but I suggest you get to know him as a friend before you start thinking about him in a romantic way. Once you know him better, you can decide if you would like to have a romantic relationship with him, and obiously, there wil have to be a mutual interest from his side, otherwise you are heading for heartache and pain.
Take it very slow and get to know him!
Good luck!
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reader, SugarCookie  +, writes (7 June 2008):
Ok. If you dont know him well enough to know if he is trust worthy with the information that you like him then you dont love him. To love someone you have to know a lot about them and that includes their faults. It is easy to love someone when you think that they are almost flawless but when you find out about the bad in him, which doesn't mean that he beats women, but maybe when he gets stressed he likes to be alone or that he loves video games and loses his mind if he doesn't get to play them every couple of days and you can put up with that you will be inlove. I dont think your age has to do with love. I was 15 when i met the guy that I am still inlove with three and a half years later. I think you really like this guy and the fact that he is a little forbiden makes it feel like more. If you can trust him and tell him then do and maybe one day you will both love eachother. But right now if he is not mature enough to not blab his mouth about you liking him then he is not mature enough to love you!
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