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writes: Hi,I need some people to really help me out with this one. I would really appreciate it. I need to know something about one of the features.I know the verizon razr has an ALL calls option(well my one friend has the razr and she says it doesnt but maybe she has a different provider?). My phone has an all calls option as well.(I don't have the razr.) And what the all calls shows is all calls dialed, received, missed. Looking at my phone(it seems a call doesnt get overwrited unless i call it again. So lets say i call a certain number this past tuesday. It remains in my all calls log until i dial it again and then it shows the last call to that person made and not the one from tuesday. And it seems the all calls holds a lot. I tried to see if it would start overwriting the calls after 100 but it seems it will only overwrite numbers i dial again.I need to know something about the razr(to help me decide if my b/f has lied to me so i really need anyone's advice). In the all calls option of the razr--does this work the same? or do certain calls get overwrited b/c it can only hold so many(i'm not talking about the dialed calls--the All calls part) In my b/f's razr phone..in the all calls option--he makes a lot of calls at work. When i looked at it thursday...the calls from monday were gone. Does this just mean he must have dialed those same exact numbers again somtime in the middle of the week and they get overwrited..or do they get overwrited b/c there isnt enough room to hold them? And when i looked at it saturday..calls from thursday were gone. So i was just wondering if my phone differs from his or if i am being lied to about something.. Either he calls the exact same numbers--friends, co workers and it gets overwrited or the phone just simply overwrites after a certain number. My B/F said he did not call his ex since New Years eve.Here is what i just found out though...it seems in the all calls section it holds 30 dialed calls..so it seems to automatically overwrite it when you have made 30 calls. So then there is a chance i am being paranoid right? In 3 days, its possible to dial that many calls right? Please helpPLEASE HELP. Greatly appreciated
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2007): WendyG you're right - anonymous it sounds like you are being way too paranoid. I don't think you should be going through your boyfriends phone, especially if you know that you are an insecure person anyway. You may not trust your boyfriend, but if he finds out you have gone to these length to prove to yourself that he is being honest and faithful then he probably won't trust you, and that will spell an even bigger problem for your relationship.
I think you should just let it drop, and trust your boyfriend.
Whether or not he called his ex on NYE is not really a problem, is it? If you are as paranoid as you come across on here, I'd understand why he'd keep it from you. Put NYE in the past and just get on with your relationship. If there is anything going on with your boyfriend lying to you, or cheating on you, you will see it in other ways, such as him being emotionally distant with you, spending less time with you, not wanting to have a physical relationship with you. Please though, do not resort to going through his phone. You are breaking his trust in you, invading his privacy and, in my opinion, giving him good enough grounds to be the one to break up with you! Sorry about my first answer though - but just drop this worry and move on with your relationship.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (9 January 2007):
 Dr Pete, Not being funny... But the girl was here for help, not ridicule.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2007): "there is a chance i am being paranoid right?"
That has got to be one of the most funniest things I've ever read.
You, paranoid? Never!
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (9 January 2007):
Hey Chill out a little!! I dont have the Rzr But I have got the motorola V3! They are pretty similar, just get more functions and stuff with the rzr but the principle is the same. Now with the V3 it only holds 10 in the previously dialed memory. And if I call one of the people in that list again it updates the date and time. It Doesnt then have that entry in the list twice it just gets overwritten. But if i were to call 10 people and then call someone new, then someone in the list will drop! In the previously called you can can also have an option of viewing the last time that number was used. just highlight the call with the standard menu key, and to the right you should see an option labeld view if you click that you can access date and time and how long the call was made for.
Im sure you are worrying over nothing, and do try to give the benifit of the doubt, and try to not to get too paranoid as if he is innocent, you dont want to be doing this for the rest of your relationship.
If you have doubts talk it through with him, and tell him that you feeling a little strange, dont go jumping the gun, if you dont trust him now, its gonna be hard in the long run, so clear the air, but dont get 5 from 2+2 just because you thought you knew. You obviously do feel a little odd that hes talks to the ex, so maybe explain to him that your not to keen on it, it could be innocent so dont go assuming hes gonna cheat.
Take care x x
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