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writes: this guy is sending mixed signals. he says we are friends but he said that i am hot and for a while he was begging me for normal pics of myself to look at, he says he has a big secret he wants to tell me that i would like but he won't tell me yet, when i did see him he wouldn't talk to me but he would fix his hair and look down, and he said he wants to hang out but as a friend! whats going on??? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2009): I think just as he is about to confess that he likes you, he says you're friends just to save himself of rejection if you don't feel the same way. I know this because I do it too.
Flirt with him and drop hints and see what happens
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reader, holmar +, writes (16 July 2009):
Unless he is just the strangest person on the planet, and I doubt he is, it really seems that he likes you but is too shy to admit it. Yes, I agree. You need to let him know you like him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys...ill talk to him and give him a big hint i like him back
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009): He's probably scared that he'll lose you as a friend if you're not interested in dating him. Guys aren't very good at reading subtle signals from the opposite sex, so you just have to give him an unmistakeable sign - or just plain say it to him. Guys are always flattered by attention from girls, and even in the extremely unlikely event that he isn't interested at the moment, you both will know that the possibility is there for another time - that will boost both your egos.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (16 July 2009):
i think he does like you hun i think he likes you more than a friend but because maybe you've not shown any signal as to whether you feel more than friends with him he says just as friends so you don't feel maybe feaked out that he likes you.
if you feel the same way tell him and see how it goes :)
hope this helps.
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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