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*itti_kat123
writes:I meet this guy a few weeks ago in a bar whilst out with friends. We literally spoke all night and got along so well there was such a strong connection between us i had never felt anything like that before and he said the same. We spoke the day after we met and arranged a date for the end of the week. I didn't hear anything from him until the day of the date which i am not used to i'm a used to guys messaging every day even if it is just to check in to see how my day has been.The date was amazing again we got along so well and had such a fun time again i spoke to him the day after and ive heard nothing again for 3 days?? Is this normal and i'm just over reacting or could he not be that interested in me? I know he has a fairly demanding job but i do to as i run my own business, but that still wouldn't stop me from sending the odd text here and there. As i say in passed relationships i've had from the moment i've met someone we have literally spoke everyday so i am really not used to this i feel like i don't know where i stand with him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2015): Don't read too much into this as many guys are like this. my husband would act exactly like this guy, wouldn't contact for days, but it doesn't mean he was not interested.
I am actually cautious about guys who are too sweet and text you every day. I was once texting like this with a guy and it turned out this is all he wanted to do is text, crazy...
I don't think because he is not intensify texting you is a sign of him not being interested.,may be he is just like that. Wait and see what happens.
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reader, SensitiveBloke +, writes (21 April 2015):
 If he was interested, he wouldn't leave it for three days to contact you. Sorry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2015): I don't think he's looking for anything committed. He's sending you a message loud and clear; don't expect anything too serious. You get attached maybe too quickly, and expect too much from someone you've dated only a couple of times.
Hold back your feelings and find-out what kind of guy you're dealing with. Some people are not so much into messaging all the time, and you should treat every guy you meet as an individual. Not compare them to others you've known. They're all different.
Assume he's not that interested in you; until you receive enough evidence to believe otherwise. A lot of messaging back and forth doesn't prove anything. A guy can text you all day and all night; and hardly ever show up to see you unless he wants sex.
Sometimes you meet a guy in midst of getting his life in order, and tying-up some loose-ends. Take your time and you'll figure out what makes him tick; and you won't be too attached if it turns out it was just a couple of nice dates, but he's not really all that great of a guy.
Don't get anxious. Slow your roll.
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reader, emma123454  +, writes (20 April 2015):
my opinion is you should start the conversation and see if he responds if not he might be the kind of guy who needs to know what he's interested in so why not speak first see what happens and if he's not into you find a guy who is
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