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Mentality to have to Make everything go right

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Article - (6 July 2015) 0 Comments - (Newest, )
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Everything all at once has just gone right! And im not going to gloat about what it is. Im just going to tell you why I think it has. And this is not science, I dont believe in luck.. I believe Every thing that happens is a consequence or reaction or knock on effect to some sort of cause.

I am a deep thinker. So much good stuff has happened this past 2 weeks... I am 26 and ive had a hard life like everyone. Not going to complain and bore you..

But the life lesson ive learnt is this...

If you suddenly one day make a load of positive decisions to yourself and set some goals.

You will get what I would describe as a burst of good luck.. What you do with this little bit of luck is up to you. but its like a wave.. it will ripcurl eventually. But its up to you how much of a wave you want to create in your life and how good you want to surf it.

Here were mine.

1. Quit Weed

2. Quit Cigerettes

3. Exerized and ate healthy food (chicken brocolli brown rice every day 3 times a day)

4. Turned a hobby into a business and put it out on facebook

5. Said Yes a lot more

6. Grew a backbone and started speaking my mind even if it does get you into trouble

7. Grew some balls and stood up to people who doubted me

8. Pulled the trigger and grabbed the girl I spent 10 months trying to get and then got her.

What happened. 1 week later im sat with 1000 cash on my desk, a new love interest, a growing business with new customers coming to me daily, looking dapper, healthy tanned and feeling great..

im going to say that this is all down to clicking ones fingers and actually appreciating your body..

i think there is something powerful that reflects on to people when you omit good vibes out and theres no way to fake good vibes.. you just have to omit them natrually. and its non verbal communication... even just walking with your shoulders back and more slowly whilst taking in more of your surroundings gets people looking and turning their head and cars with girls in beeping!! simple.. just walk different..

the moral is.. give of good vibes by treating yourself and being a bit bigheaded. sing your praises and get sure that you're awesome and you will see. i promise.

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