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writes:If I guy tells a girl who hasn't met his parents that the parents said "Don't bring a random girl home, to bring home someone then break up with them after a week is something we dont want. Bring someone long-term". He told me I wasn't a random girl, he wanted to spend more time with me and make our relationship more secure. What does this all mean? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2008): He is building his trust, he is giving you certainty. A captain gives the subordinates certainty, in exchange for dedication and loyalty. The previous posters have offered you the positive side. I will talk of the negative, so you can have an almighty vision. It's obvious given his comments, that he wants you to believe he is in search of a serious committment. Does he believe it as well? Maintain a shadow of doubt about his intention. If you are naive enough to ask this question, then you are naive enough to be fed with nice words, I reckon. Take MUCH care. I hope the other posters are right. It's very likely that they are right, actually! You are meeting the parents, right? That's great! Let's not minimise the importance of this by over analysing it either. Just go ahead and make a good impression, girl!...
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (25 January 2008):
 he is letting you know that you are not a random girl and he sees you as someone he would like to take home to his parents, and that he also sees wat you have as a serious relationship. he feels comfortable enough to want to take you home to meet them soon and thats special!!
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (25 January 2008):
 Meet his parents he wants to have a long term secure relationship with you. Just dont do anything stupid in front of them and try to be polite and yourself at the same time. You will be nervous, but dont let it get out of hand.
Good luck!
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reader, rockelle +, writes (25 January 2008):
 It sounds like he wants to be in a relationship. A serious one. He is taking you home to meet his family so it sounds like he is tryingto take your relationship to the next level and have a long term commitment.
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