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30-35,
*emuel
writes:i have a crush on this girl and i think she also has a crush on me.But i'm very shy to even chat with her on phone, except through text.It's been 3yrs since i've known her and i can say the chating i've had with her since then till now is not more than 6 minutes.yeah 6min in 3yrs!! I don't know how to tell her that i love her. And i am also afraid of rejection.please help me
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reader, lemuel +, writes (31 December 2010):
lemuel is verified as being by the original poster of the question@sj92she is the only and first girl i ever loved and still is.i don't think i can ever love any girl apart from her.i don't know what i will do if she rejects me
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reader, lemuel +, writes (31 December 2010):
lemuel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionman i have tried getting her out of my mind but the i do the greater the magnitude becomes
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reader, lemuel +, writes (31 December 2010):
lemuel is verified as being by the original poster of the question@all-loved-up. thanks for your answer but getting closer to to know her is the problem.How do i do that?
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reader, lemuel +, writes (31 December 2010):
lemuel is verified as being by the original poster of the question@mishmash.is not dat i wont to take advatage of her crash on me n do something silly.frankly speaking i dont have any female friends and i dont knw how to relate to them.some females try to get close to me but i just shy away.though some of the females who try to get close t me are far more beautiful than she i can just stop thinking about her n i wish to get to know her but am shy of girls.she even wrote me a letter describing how she was coping at her college but i'm yet to reply because am shy and afraid.
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reader, all-loved-up!  +, writes (29 December 2010):
hey! If you say that you think she also likes you then why not tell her how you feel? Take a chance, you'll never know until you try it! If you don't tell her you might regret and spend your life thinking what if? But mark my words, don't rush into things and tell her out of the blue. Try to be closer to her first-friend wise! Hope i helped! Gd' luck! X
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): Lemuel,
I don't believe you love her, but I do believe you want to have sex with her...and you think that you might be able to at this point because you suspect she has a crush on you. I'm not sure I believe you're "too shy" to talk to her either...either you aren't interested in knowing her or you're afraid of her...Either way, it's best to get to know her a little better in better before you tell her about your feelings. Try inviting her out for a drink or a meal and talk to her
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2010): Man take a step back.
I think you realise that you've not got a relationship but a fantasy.
Suggest that you forget this girl and start to chat with people you meet in person; at the bus stop, cafe, queue for the cinema.
I know it will be hard but you'll have a chance to slowly get to know someone.
Tough but fair.
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