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female
age
36-40,
*itty Whitehead
writes: Im not sure if my fella loves me truley, if you know what I mean. I feel like he does but he has recently been tExting another girl who he met on a lads holiday last sumMer before we got together, he has been wanting her to mEet up with him when he has been working away and she's goregous and im not, so does he love me or is he just telling me he does to keep me happy and content???
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reader, candy00s +, writes (1 June 2007):
He knows you know about the txting? It could be that he thinks of this girl he met on holiday as nothing more than a friend and he might not realise he is making you feel this way by txting.
Talk to him about it, tell him how you feel and how you need him to reassure you that she is just a mate and you are the one he loves and wants to be with.
I dont think he is doing this to be hurtful, he probably doesnt realise you have a problem with it?
Hope this might help u?
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female
reader, DrPsych +, writes (1 June 2007):
I think he is being really disrespectful to you if he is planning to meet up with a holiday romance while dating you. It must make you feel very bad but you can tell him how you feel and ask him to stop contacting her. Maybe he does love you and he is just thinking of friendship with the other girl but on face value it doesnt seem like that and you have a right to be concerned. You seem to doubt his love and you should try to get to the bottom of what is really going on between him and the girl.
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