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writes:I split up with my boyfirend four months ago. We still have sex with each other even though he has a new girlfriend. I still love him and want him back. How can i tell if he still have feelings for me? what should i do?
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reader, xxzoezxx +, writes (29 December 2007):
i say stop sleeping with him..he has a girlfriend and is proberbly using you for sex.if he loved you he wouldnt be with you and his girlfriend
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2007): He doesn't have any feelings for you. He's enjoying the luxury of sleeping with two women.
Stop offering it on a plate to this guy, all you're doing is getting yourself hurt. Without sounding harsh, he chose someone else to be his girlfriend - you're just his bit on the side.
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reader, Asexy  +, writes (24 December 2007):
 Oh, hon, I'm so sorry. Don't let this guy touch you anymore. He's just using you for sex. If he wanted to be with you, he would. But he's moved on to his girlfriend.Like kenny said, even if he WOULD come back to you, since he's cheating on his girlfriend with you, he would cheat on you with someone else.You deserve so much better. And as long as you continue to sleep with this guy you will continue to have feelings for him. Cut him off. The guy for you is out there. Don't be attached to this guy when you meet your guy. Best of luck.
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reader, rockelle +, writes (24 December 2007):
 To answer your question he probably does have feelings for you but the more important question is what kind of feelings. He has already moved on and has a new girlfriend so the chances of him leaving her to get back with you are very slim. If he wanted to continue this relationship with you he has had four months to do it. I hate to say it but I think that this guy has moved on and he is just enjoying having two women, and unfortunately you are getting whats left over.
If you broke up with him I am sure it was for a good reason, so I think it would be a good idea to move on with your life because he already has. Good Luck.
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reader, kenny +, writes (24 December 2007):
 To be perfecly honest i think he is using you for the sex, he has got another partner which no doubt he sleeps with also, surely if he had feelings for you he would drop her and get back with you. He really is having his cake and eat it, as ultimately he's got too woman on the go. He is being unfaithful to his new partner, so what makes you think he would not do this to you if you were with him. I would be inclined to cut all ties with him and not see him anymore, and deny him the satisfaction he gets from sleeping with you.
All the best, and good luck x
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