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writes:help please :|Me and my boyfriend were playing dares. his was "i will do ANYTHING for you when we're together" and well. i said something like "take my top off and kiss starting from the top going down" Because i didnt wnt to tell him to do something he didn't want to.. id rather let him tell me. He wants to kiss you know.. that area. . . and well.I said he can kiss whatever and whereever he wants as long as im fine with it at the time. But now. Im a bit scared :| i was like this before about fingering but just went for it and now love it. I've never had a boy do anything like that ^ to me before and i dnt know what to expect etc.I want him too. . i know he loves me so much and all he wants to do is make me happy and would do anything i told him to. This is like before. But im afraid he'll freak out if he kisses me there or something. arghhh i just can't decide what i want and i never can so i just said he can and i'd love it :] which im sure i will but i get so easily nervous before hand..what should i expect? Will i like it? should i be afraid? has anyone else been from something similar?i know that is all complete rambling but yeh :| i can't talk to this to my friends really. I could to him. I know he'd understand..But i thought id mention it here first.Any help suggested is very welcome.
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reader, broken babe  +, writes (19 September 2007):
 my boyfriends my first for everything i just let things run their course we talked about kissing for 3 weeks then one day he hugged me and looked at me and asked can i? i had no idea what he meant but he just went ahead and kissed me. its nice letting the guy take control sometimes or well what i mean is keep doing what you want at sometime he'll go for it and if your comfy with it just let it happen well i guess i mean sex was the same for me it just happened but be prepared and ya let things run theyre course if you want them to
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (18 September 2007):
 Hey there, sweetness.
Like Cloud9 said, you should never do anything that you're feeling scared or nervous about. Then it's not even fun, or even pleasurable!
When I was your age, I (also like Cloud9), spent most of my time at your age kissing and snuggling and I loved every second of it. You have the rest of your life to go further, why rush?? It makes it less fun later!
If your boyfriend is really truly a great guy, he'll be happy to wait until you're a little more comfortable and a little more ready. Just don't rush yourself, sweetness!!
xxIndia
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reader, findingitharder +, writes (18 September 2007):
 i feel that everyone is nervous about these sort of things the first time it happens, obviously because they have never done it before!
but if you cant decide if you really want it or not, or are having doubts, just don't. you are still young and its okay to be scared, everyone is. i suggest waiting until you feel that you are ready :) and to answer if you will like it: you might, maybe not right now, maybe not next week, and maybe not even when you are 20; it all a personal preference.
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reader, On Cloud9 +, writes (18 September 2007):
 Never do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. I am hoping that your bf is same age as you? if so, then he probably just as nervous as you. You said that you are able to talk to your bf, well then I suggest you keep talking to him and tell him how you feel. At your age I was just really into kissing and cuddling, nothing too heavy and now at age 28 I am glad I waited til I was a bit older. You will know when you are ready and it doesn't sound like you are just now. There is no harm in waiting until you know for sure what YOU want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2007): Speaking as a 15 year old who's enjoyed sex with an amazing girl, i'm sure he would love to please you. Don't worry about anything, just relax and enjoy it.There's no need to be afraid of it (it's usually an intimate and pleasurable experience on both sides)
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