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writes:Me and my girlfriend fight about everthing! Sometimes it's so little and it turns in to a huge fight, we can be just sitting around and she will ask me to get her something to drink or make her a sandwich etc and if I don't do it she gets pissed and she won't talk to me, if we go to the food store sometimes I don't have a lot of money so I try to shope smart like get the cheap brands and she will put something in the cart that she wants but we don't need, I'll say no put it back and the rest of the tme in the food store she will be a straight bitch. I don't know what to do cuz I am so tired of us fighting and every time we get in a fight she will call her sister and tell her everything I do but not what she does so her sister talks to her mom and her grandma so her family thinks I am an asshole. What do I do to stop all the little fights?????? and how do I clear thing up with her family??????? Plus I don't have anybody to talk to after we get in a fight so I'm stuck mad while she cries on the phone and gets all the sympathy.
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reader, blahblah82  +, writes (23 May 2009):
hi, i dont know if u r still with ur girlfriend or if u guys split up but i sure hope that u guys are together! im like that with my boyfriend. we fight all the time and i act like a psycho freak show everytime he pisses me off and i get my entire family to hate his guts... i know why i do it! i want to hurt him like how he hurt me back in the days. its a revenge thing. ur girlfriend should learn how to forgive u for the mistakes u have done to get her to be so no mercy on u. have her forgive u. be sensitive and she will stop it. i gurantee u this solution will work. since u wrote here u are looking for a solution and im hoping it worked out for u guys.
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reader, MissUnique +, writes (13 November 2008):
 She is a spoiled brat. No offence, but she must have been given what she wanted all the time and never had to worry about problems, now she has them, she can't handle them so she's just rebelling against them. Why are you even with her? I know you might love her and all - love makes you do crazy things etc etc. but she is horrible! If I was you, I'd have ran a long time ago! Because if you stay with her much longer, she'll end up ruining your life and trying to control you. Do what you need to. Please.
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reader, Anonny +, writes (13 November 2008):
Wow! - I think I would just get out if I were you!! - You are better off footlose and fancy free rather than being with someone who makes your life miserable with arguing all the time!!I hear of so many couples who say they just spend their time arguing and I think "well why don't you just split up if its that bad?!!" - Are relationships so important that it's better to be in one and miserable than out of one and happy?I think the only time these kind of relationships should be worked at are when children are involved!!Good Luck!
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reader, mattie90 +, writes (13 November 2008):
 alright me and my boyfriend fight nonstop until we figured out what we should do he gave me an ultimatum he told me 2 either choose the fighting between us or to choose being with him! of course my answer was him what we also did was figure out the reasons why we were arguing all of the time and we eliminated the problems now if this doesnt work then u need 2 eliminate her because she is the problem now im not trying to be mean but u need to be assertive with her tell her whats up and if it doesnt stop get rid of her sry 2 be so mean hope this helps
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