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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009): If you have 30 stalkers following you around they must be minimum wage stalkers. Stalking is about stealth. Its was once only a hunting term. You wouldnt know you were being stalked by a good stalker At least not untill they take the shot and blew your brains out. But thats not stalking. That would be murder.
Do you want me to send you a price list ?
Dont ask me to post it. I wont do that again.
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (19 October 2009):
 No poster I was not being sarcastic at all.
In this case I really suggest that you contact the authorities. When there has been physical abuse especially. Regardless of the circumstances and given this physical past I would be very careful. You never know when someone with an axe to grind may decide that he has had enough of the undercard and wants to jump to the main event.
If he or any of his crew attempts to contact you do not respond, but keep any documentation that you can get and present it to the police when you talk to them. The best way to convince them is by documented evidence, so once again anything you can present to them will help you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat do you mean by WWCTYTD by the way.And if anyone else still wants to answer the question I'd be grateful
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionto grim reality:I'm not sure if youre being sarcastic but in case your not,me and my boyfriend did have a fight 3 years ago and he hurt me quite badly,I hit him back a couple of times but I did'nt cause any bruising,a few days later I noticed him following me on his own and a couple of weeks later I first noticed his freinds joining in-I'm not sure if he started stalking me before or after the fight,that's just when I first noticed it,but I think he may have pursueded his freinds to help using that because I heard one of the freinds saying I assualted him and he was defending himself-the stupid idiot was saying it was a racially motivated assualt-which is ridiculous since he was my boyfriend of several years and I was a skinny 17 year old girl at the time and he is big and muscular.I yelled at the friend that I wasn't racist and that it was ridiculous because I was his girlfriend and he seemed to think that I was using my boyfriend for sex!So I think unless the friend was just saying it to wind me up my so called boyfriend may have spread lies that I am racist and a slut to get them to help him-and now I am atually grown up myself,that he may even have said that I am a peadophile since a lot of the men helping him have kids.Or else he is paying them loads.I haven't been to the police because I was scared they wouldn't beleive me and I knew there would be millions of counter allegations.I have no idea why he would want to stalk me but sometimes he acts a bit mental-like he will be jealous just because I have a new phone and immediatly start bragging about some flashy new thing he's just bought.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009): It depends..How much money ? I can be bought but i doubt you could afford my even my most basic stalking rates. And how can you stalk anyone for fun ? Do you know what fun means ? Its the opposite of work.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009): i wouldnt 'stalk' anyone for any reason. I would follow and watch someone if it was the right thing to do to help a family member or child. You need more help than we can offer here. You are trying to understand how evil works? We dont have the answer. Go to the police...hopefully they can offer some direction.
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (19 October 2009):
Well thank god thats cleared up...So you arent a troll. Now that has been established, please give us some background so we can help you.
What initiated the surveillance, if you can point to any incidents?
Has your ex been insanely jealous, or is there some reason that he may feel this need?
Has he been accusing you of being unfaithful to him in the relationship? and if so, were you?
Assumimg that he is indeed employing an army of people to spy on you, was there an incident in particular that made you break it off with him?
I ask these questions because yes it is stalking in any country. And yes many people who cant handle a breakup or an ex moving on resort to extreme measure as an instrument of control.
nearly 30 people involved though? That would mean that something really nasty happened between you two, or that if these are just his friends, that something happened whereby all his friends have turned against you.
So please let us know a little more so we can help you. I think if I had known a little more beforehand I would not have been so flippant about it. My apologies, but please understand that we get troll posters here all the time, and by the initial question you asked, it left little wiggle room to think it was anything but.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionstop being a dick-if you don't want to answer the question don't type anything
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionActually I'm not a bloody troll-My boyfriend has people stalking me 24/7 and there are like 30 of them-I want to find out how on earth he got them to do it -as they can't all be close friends or relatives-I thought he might've payed them or spread lies,but I still can't picture people giving up their free time to stalk someone unless they knew for themselves that the rumors were true-in fact I still wouldn't do it-if someone is a prostitute/racist/peado it is a police matter-but some people are dumb and sad so I wanted to see what percentage of people are dumb and sad so I could either eliminate the possibility that he payed them/spread rumors or find out that it probably is the case.
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (19 October 2009):
TROLL POST!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlso,sorry I forgot to ask-would you follow someone if someone told you they were dangerous and needed watching or that they were a peado or a prostitute or racist?Would you do it for pay or for free-would you do it even if the only evidence you had that said person was a peado/racist/a prostitute was what the other person told you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009): Depend on the person I'm following and the person who asked... If I liked the person that asked (and not the person I'm following) and I would be in harms way... I do it.
However, what you'd learn is that what PI's do is long and boring and what you see on TV is 2 min's of interesting stuff that is the result of DAYS worth of sitting and waiting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009): i would follow someone for the right reason...but not for money. I would never stalk anyone for any reason...
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reader, HereAreMyTwoCents +, writes (19 October 2009):
 If a friend or relative I cared about told me that they think they're being cheated, and could I do them a favor and follow their partner for a while... yes, I would do it. It's kind of like what they do in the show "Cheaters."
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