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writes: My boyfriend and i have been together for one and a half years now, he is 21 and im 19. when i was 17 i had a bad relationship for about a year and after that ended,i have a few casual relationships. so at 17,i had slept with 7 people, my boyfriend had never slept with anyone and i am his first. we are constantly fighting about it because he had said no to so many of those people and yet now that he is with me, we want to be together forever and as it stands, my total is 8 and his is one and we are constantly fighting about it,please help, i dont know what to do anyomre.we are constantly blaming each other and not understanding, Reply to this Question
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reader, Helen Help! :)  +, writes (16 June 2006):
 Hey Huni,I know how your bfs feeling because my bf has slept with just one more person than me he was my first n he had someone else b4 me score 2-1 and i get mad bout it sometimes it makes me feel insucure i wonder all the time if she was better thn me i picture them togeather and it upsets me and i hate it and sum times i go off on one but then he ses to me well who am i with now, you are the one that i love and want not her shes nothing and it cheers me up loads all your bf needs is a little reassurance from you when you start arguing because hes only doin it because it hurts him and itll only hurt him like that because he luvs u so much! Good Luck Helen x
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2006): Well, to be honest, I think thats something ridiculous to fight over. He knew how many people you've been with and he chose to be with you, there isnt thing that you could do to change that fact. It isnt like you could go back into time and change what you did. He has to learn to let it go. I mean theres nothing else to do. What is done is done. Why you did that, I dont know. Maybe you should exlpain to him how you felt at the time and why you did what you did. I dont think that its so much a jelousy thing like he cant stand the thought that other men had had a piece of you, i think that he's jelous of the fact that you being a girl has had more sexual partners than him. Its like he's being like a little kid fighting with you over candy and saying that its not fair that you have more candy than i do. Tell him to get over it. And if he cant leave because he's only going to complain about it all the time and he might try to get even so that he could feel better. I know from experience. Hope this helps
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