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writes:I feel that I'm an average 20 year old girl but it seems like everything I enjoy or do my boyfriend looks down upon, for example I like the makeup tutorials they have on you-tube well, he thinks anything in you-tube girl related is stupid. Another example, I like reality tv (the hills, true life, intervention etc.) he looks down on that too.He calls me ignorant when I don't agree with what he has to say.His attitude on most situations is that he knows better or that people are just plain stupid. I'm kinda starting to think that he may be way too mature for me even though he's only a year older than me, my friend just thinks he's very arrogant.Hes a wonderful person and a good boyfriend but I'm thinking about breaking things off with him cause it gets pretty annoying when any idea I have gets shot down. What do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008): Sounds like arrogance to me. It also sounds like you don't absolutely love being with him (something you should feel towards your bf). Try talking to him about it and tell him that it's bothering you. If he still doesn't get off his pedestal, then perhaps breaking up with him would give him the shove he needs. A real bf would respect his gf's interests, not demean her for it.
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