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writes: I need a bit of advice regarding masturbation. I stared masturbating about 5 years ago, and I do not have a problem in reaching a climax. However, when I reach that point when my body starts shaking and my toes tingling, I don't know what to do from there. Feeling out of control makes me feel a bit nervous I gues, so when I reach that point I would usually just quit and go to sleep...which is a bit dissappointing. Do you have any advice on how to lengthen my pleasure, since I am sure there has got to be more than this?I hope this is enough info. Thank you! Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (17 August 2008):
 Soekie, as an older man you may or may not regard my input, but years of experience with women may mean something. There is some confusion in that you say, "I do not have a problem in reaching a climax," then you say, "I would usually just quit and go to sleep." Do you experience orgasm or not?
When that shaking and tingling occurs, you are very likely nearing orgasm but possibly need something more to send you to Utopia, and for most women that is a man. A man can possibly provide the degree of extra excitement that is "more than this." If the only option is continued solitary masturbation, then many women seem to enjoy vibrators and dildos.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008): please dont try bananas, i heard pople do that, and when i figured that out i was shocked. and toys are a turn off for me =]
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