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writes:Last year I ran into an old friend at the company I worked for. He and I were attracted to one another, years ago, but we never dated seriously, we were just really good friends. At the time, I had a boyfriend, but he wasn't in a relationship. My boyfriend and I broke up and my friend and I went out a couple of times, nothing serious. Several weeks later, my boyfriend and I got back together.Before my friend I both got laid off, we would see each other everyday, and even had lunch together. Now I can't stop thinking about him and I think I've fallen in love with him. I know it's silly to have these feelings when he and I are both married, but I can't help the way I feel.Even though I'm busy with school and my two year old daughter, could it be that I'm just bored with my current life and that's why I have these feelings?
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (6 January 2009):
 I think you may be bored of your current life. You don't even mention your husband or how your relationship is with him in your question! If it is a decent relationship (if being boring is it's only fault), then get your head out of the clouds and start getting active with your family again. Focus all the energy that you're devoting to your friend to your husband and daughter.
I think you may miss the spark and excitement of a new relationship that you have rediscovered with your friend. That's totally okay, because I think a lot of people go through that same thing. But, the answer is always the same - you need to reconnect to that spark and excitement that drew you to your husband.
Good luck!
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