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Our marriage is in trouble, but he doesn't seem to see it... and he won't work on our problems.

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Question - (14 April 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 April 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

My husband and I seem to not talk anymore

I'm 15 years younger than my husband and when we first got together it was great! But I fell pregnant very early on in our relationship and continued with the pregnancy. He has a very demanding job. I have a lot of health issues which can't be cured and comes home from work and has a go at me for not having the house like a show home (which he expects)!

If he doesn't shout at me, he doesn't talk to me at all!

I've tried to discuss it with him and he has admitted once that he doesn't love me!

He cares a lot about me, but when asked does he love me he goes quiet and walks off. Sex just seems to be that; there is no kissing or love there. He isn't affectionate at all. I feel so alone in this marriage he doesn't really interact with our children.

What should I do as he already has 1 failed marriage and I've always thought you have to work at it no matter what? Am I right in thinking this?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2005):

Try marriage counseling... if that doesn't work, spell it with me: D I V O R C E.

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