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reader, Smiler +, writes (20 June 2006):
Hey honey
I have to say i agree with all the agony aunts above babe just stop looking cause otherwise you will come of needy and desperate and thats the last thing you want babe... you are who you are don't be in such a rush to do the whole b/f thing etc etc it will happen when its good and ready enjoy the single life get out and about live a little romance is out there and it will find you soon, take your time enjoy the single scene for a while.... :o)
I hope my advice was able to help you out with your situation babe and good luck with this... if you ever need a friend or a chat or just more advice don't hesitate to email me sweetie, I would love to hear from you again and know how you got on... Remember i'm always here for you anytime ok
You Take Care Sweetie X
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (20 June 2006):
The best way to get a boyfriend is not to WANT a boyfriend. If you act desperate and needy then you will attract boys who will treat you badly. It is a cliche but love really does come your way when you are not looking! Concentrate on liking yourself and developing self confidence - then the boys will be in an orderly queue outside your front door.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2006): Fantastic.
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (20 June 2006):
Well you need to go to places where boys hang out and make friends to start with and then things blossom. If your in school, talk to some, get to know them and take it a step at a time. You need to let a guy know you are interested before he will show an interest in you. Be yourself and see what happens. They wont just come to you, you need to get out and about.
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reader, Yos +, writes (20 June 2006):
You haven't given us much information about you to go on! So i'll give you some 'very' general advice:
You are most likely to find your boyfriend when you are not looking
He is most likely to like you when you are not trying to be liked
The best way to be is to be yourself
Even when you don't know who you are or how you should behave
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