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writes:Dear Cupid,I really like this guy that works at my local grocery store. I usually go in there a couple times a week to pick up food on my lunch break and sometimes ill catch him in the aisles and we talk for a little bit. We sometimes get a little flirty and laugh and he's done kind gestures for me (he's written a special code on my favorite drink that gets me it for free) and he'll say... i'm only doing this because i like you. I have such a big crush on him and have been wanting to ask him out for a long time... i'm just wondering why he hasnt asked me yet? Lately i've been thinking about asking him but every time i see him now I get nervous and chicken out. I'm scared that he might have a girlfriend and i'll embarrass myself by asking or maybe he's just not into me that way... either way im afraid. Is there any way I can do this without it being completely painful to do? Why hasnt he asked me yet? Is it maybe because he's at work? What can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey TrancedRhythmEar... looks as though one of your theories was right. I did a little recon on good ol' facebook and it seems like he's got himself a girlfriend (judging by the nature of the profile picture... it didn't actually say). Thankfully I looked before I went ahead and asked. I went in there yesterday and we talked for a little bit and he was really flirty per usual. Hm... I'm so confused.... One of my friends said I should just ask anyway and see what happens. Is this a dumb idea?
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (10 March 2013):
 Ask him out directly. Dont ask about a possible girlfriend. Chances are ne hasn't because he has one or he's interested and doesn't have the balls nor the confidence.
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reader, R1  +, writes (9 March 2013):
 a grocery store doesn't sound like an easy place to ask someone out so i'd assume he is worried about all the same things as you. its always a bit scary and a risk to ask someone out. if you are going out one night why not tell him and say if he's not doing anything why doesn't he join you.
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (9 March 2013):
It's mainly because he is at work. You should just ask him out instead.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2013): Just ask him in kidding way if he have a boyfriend, If not, invite him to take a coffee in his free time, good luck ;)
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