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male
age
30-35,
*mit thakur
writes:i had a huge crush on a girl. she is very beautiful. maybe thats the reason. also i dont have many female friends and she was the only one i could talk to so...i guess it was certain.anyway i tried t do something. i flirted with her many times. i even took her out for coffee. i mean i did everything i could. she always was very friendly towards me and she still is. but with time i reaized that it was no going anywhere. she only take me as just a friend and she doesnt like me.so i guess i knew this was not going to work and it never can.i just know that i am not the kind of guy she found attractive..so i have to end this crush.problem is now i cant get her out of my head. i know it takes time but it has became a worry. whenever i see her i couldnt control myself.those feelings comes again that moment. even how hard i try i just cant make her go out of my head. even if i go to college i couldnt stop myself from seeing her before i go back home.i tried distracting myself by doing other things but whatever i do she just pops in my mind.its like forgetting her is making the crush more stronger...please guys what to do..time is not doing anything. its the worst feeling when u see someone and u know u cant them.it just kils you....help guys...
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (10 March 2013):
A lot of guys think that if they are nice to a girl that she's going to fall for them. That's not even remotely how it works and if you don't get that soon, you're going to be a lonely guy.
You not only have to show your interest but you need to make a move. And that doesn't mean ask her to coffee! That's not making a move. Each girl is different, so I hesitate to tell you what "making a move" entails.
Let's just say you need to leave no doubt about your interest in her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2013): Have you ever told her how you felt?Perhaps she thought you were only taking her out as a friend, not as a potential love interest and that is why she keeps treating you as a friend? I am sure if she feels even a little bit towards you, she would not say no, I know I wouldn't if the guy I love told me he felt the same.
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