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writes: I was with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years when I found out he had slept with another woman in our home. Leading up to this I had found numerous other text messages from other woman and phone numbers indicating that he was going to cheat or already had. When I found out I left. We made contact about 6 months later, he promised he had learnt his lesson and we continued things on a very casual basis until I heard a voicemail message on his phone from a girl telling him she'd be a the normal place waiting for him. I didn't bother telling him but just cut him off again for about 4 months. He then contacted me, swore he did not know what I was talking about and swore he would be loyal this time....I recently found a text message implying that he had made plans to meet another woman. He had told me he was going to see a friend....he ended up meeting me in the end. I think the saying a leopard never changes its spots is very true. What made him not go and meet her? He did not know that I knew he had plans to meet this woman. I confronted him about it after a blazing row and told him that someone had told me but he went for pure denial (as always), little does he know I've seen it on his phone so he is blatantly lying to my face. Please help.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2007): How much more proof do you need that this man is neither to be believed or trusted? A relationship without trust is a pseudo-relationship and not worth having.
Kick him to the curb - permanently! No more "timeouts." He has told you three times nothing was going on and he was lying through his teeth.
He's not going to change now, and enough is enough. DUMP him for once and all!
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reader, Lilly223  +, writes (2 January 2007):
 You already have all the answers you need. This guy is a waste of time and gives all the other great men out there a bad name. Find one of those great guys, and leave this moron in your dust. I would say the only help you really need is some self esteem and self-respect. If you have those, this ass wouldn't be an issue would he?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (2 January 2007):
 Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2007): The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior...for some reason your boyfriend is a cheater...if you can't live with this kind of drama, you need to cut your ties with him forever...why would you want to put up with someone who lies to you, that you can't trust, hurts you in this way by disrespecting you, and not to mention could give you an STD or worse.
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