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writes:I wonder if u cn help with advice. I had problems were I ws working and I was forced to leave I am currently serching abd hoping to find smthing soon. The problem I have is tht I don't feel like being in a relationship as most of the guys who ask me out are of low class. Whn I was working high class guys wld ask me out is it wrong to give my self a break until I start working as I dnt feel comfortable around the ones tht ask me out now. Am not in a rush and currently enjoying being single. Help
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (8 September 2010):
 In America, you would be considered a gold digger. Well, regardless of his class as long as he's everything you're looking for in a man then his financial status shouldn't matter. You know those low class guys could be outstanding guys who just don't make that much money. They feel snubbed by women who are judging them on their finances. And now you know how they feel because you are not wanted by any high class man. Money isn't everything, it's nice to have but it doesn't define who you are. I think you need to be more open minded, and not judge someone on their financial status because you are in no state to judge because you are out of work.
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reader, Mystery woman  +, writes (8 September 2010):
Ultimately it all boils down to being comfortable..and if that's missing even before you date these guys I don't think they're worth your time and effort..!Dating is supposed to be fun and more like something that helps you unwind and have a good time! But going out with guys who don't excite you at all is just going to be like physical exercise!exhausting!
I personally feel its better being single than being with the wrong people!..You need to feel from within you that you truly deserve the best..only then the best will come your way..
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2010): What is this, the Victorian era? If you're too good to date a 'low class' man, then by all means don't. Wait for someone who has enough money and material things to be 'good enough' for you. Personally, I'd much rather date a 'low class' man who was a genuinely nice guy than one who wouldn't treat me right, no matter how 'high class' he was.
By all means turn down these 'low class' men. It sounds to me that you're not good enough for them anyway, and I'm not talking about money.
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