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*ove suks
writes:Im in a bit of a pickle. Im with another guy and have been for a few weeks, hes great n really nice, but recently my ex has come on the scene, he was my first ever real boyfriend,we were engaged, i love him to bits and i always will as he was my first. We broke up nearly 6 months ago and is now with the girl he kissed when he was with me and has been since the day after we split up, i was devastated, didnt eat etc but he got engaged to her and now lives with her but now shes pregnant.He came to my house today and we got talking just like old times and he told me he doesnt want to be with her anymore and he still loves me, but when he was leaving he kissed me and it ended up a really passionate kiss and he threw his engagement ring away i knew it was going to lead to more but we stopped it. I still really love him and have been crying most of the day because of what i done to my current bf but i dont love him, its my ex that i love and i dont know what to do :Splease help me im stuck in a love triangle xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008): I think u should do what your heart tells you to do, if you love him and he loves you then just try and work it out with him again. cos theres no point loosing out on your true love.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (17 July 2008):
Yeah, where do you think babies come from?
He seemed to be very happy with her and love her enough to have sex with her.
I find it very very strange that this guy is in love with you till you want committment and engagement, then goes off to someone else, then as soon as commitment and fatherhood comes along, he's straight back to you.
He is always picking the easy option. Don't fall for it because he'll be straight off to someone else when he gets bored of you again.
Get rid of him.
As for your current boyfriend, you can either try to work things out, or of you think you aren't in love with him then split up and be single for a bit because it's not fair to him.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (17 July 2008):
 Your ex has caused you a lot of grief and pain. If you want more of the same treatment, stick around. It's not going to get any better with a pregnant fiancee. people can only treat you how you ALLOW them to treat you. You already know exactly what the situation here is, and will be, because he is about to become a father. That fact isn't going to go away and it will be a part of your immediate life for 18 years, and beyond that, when his kid has grandchildren. This is already complicated enough, and it hasn't even started already!!!
Take very good care of yourself with the decisions that you make for yourself...
XXX
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