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writes:I met this guy from the net... he's cute... when I first met him he told me that he will travel soon... so I said to my self that I should never get emotionally involved with him...Then things started to change... and we had sex... and he was super amazing... the way he makes me feel is just everything I ever wanted or thought of when it comes to my seual desires... at the same time I was trying to stop my self from falling in love with him... because we were not only having sex but also we were very good friends.... He's from another religion, he can't be my boyfriend because he had a previous experience where the girl was not from his religion... I tried to stop myself from falling for him but I couldn't... and I loved him silently... then after a while I told him... he didn't reject me in an ugly way but he made it clear to me that he likes me so much but he will never go through the same shit again.. I pretented that I will get over it with time... and I acted in a very good way that my feelings were not true and maybe I was wrong about my feelings... but the truth is that I love him... he doesn't have a gf.. he really likes to talk to me to have sex with me... but not a relationship... I am very good in pretending the same... but I just wonder will he ever fall for me?????????I am so fucked up because of this problem!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (14 April 2009):
 There could be for a few reasons for this:
1, He does like you and genuinely is worried about what people would say as you two are different religions (a modern Romeo and Juliet)
2, He knows you like him and he can have sex with you when ever he pleases so why bother getting all emotional, when a girl of his own religion who he can have a relationship with may come along soon.
3, He has no feelings for you at all as is just using you for sex.
But I honestly think if he has told you no way, then that's how you should take it.
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