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female
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30-35,
*rissichavous
writes: Well there's this guy chad i was talking to in January, we texed, messaged, and chatted all the time on myspace. We went to the movies with friends, and kissed every chance we had alone together. At his place in his room, and even at the venue, plus we kissed after school at my locker before we would go home. I thought we were crazy for each other and everything, but we didn't go out though, we just talked but i never told him i how truly felt about him once. Now i haven't even gotten a text from him, or a hey from him at school, its like im not here anymore to him. I always tell my best friend Rachael the way i feel about him, and i told chads brother too, Nick. Nick told me that the way Chad works is that he thinks pretty girls are a little too good for him so that he just dates ugly girls but its weird because as i said he kissses me and other stuff, and im definitely not ugly! i mean he knows i like him and all, but he doesn't know that hes half of my thoughts every day. i asked nick why hasn't chad texed me and chad told him he was waiting for me to text him, when i was waiting for him to text me, and that he likes me and everything. but i texed him hapy birthday once on the cell phone and he never texed back, i messaged him on myspace happy bday and he just read it! so i deleted him off myspace and my phone and he hasn't even spoke to me once in like 2 weeks. i think hes over me, i don't know what to think anymore. hes so adorable, hes just so beautiful to me. Ive been waiting for me and him to text but hes never talked to me yet. but every time we get alone hes always wanting to do stuff together he doesn't even say a word to me in public now. i act like i don't see him when i walk by to see if it would bug him but hes never said anything to me, all he does is look. i wanna tell him the way i feel but it feels like hes moved on, i really want to tell him face to face but i want him to be ready to hear me say it. I'm scared of getting rejected because everything he says to me means a lot. Rachael said that he isn't the type to tell someone how he feels but he told her he likes me. and one time he asked her whos jacket i was wearing because it was another guys. im confused please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2010): Hi, from previous experience i know boys never quite know what they want. they're always changing their minds- and so quikly at that! :( basically i would personally forget him. i don't think he's got the grasp of relationships yet.some boys don't know a good thing when they've got it. he'll come around and talk to u eventually, you've just got to wait. i hope things work out!! xxx anonymous
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