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30-35,
anonymous
writes:There's this boy that I am REALLY good friends with him. I have been fancing him really badly since ages, and I know that he knows that, but he also knows that I am not allowed 2 have a boyfriend so I don't know how he thinks about me. Everyone that sees us together says we're the best couple and we're blind loved! He's always flirting with me, always one of the 1st people 2 notice my hair and makeup... etc.He even asks me why I don't go park that often. I can die without him! Does he fancy me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009): Well, plainly, the age you say you are, is not your real age then? I'm saying that because you do say you aren't allowed to date yet? So how old are you?? (just curious).About this guy you like. The way you described him, I will answer your question. It does sound like he does like you. However, being as you are not allowed to date, yet, why not be good friends with him and consider dating him, when you are allowed to date. So hang in there, hun and don't rush into this. it's likely your parents have set a dating boundary, for a reason. You need to respect that. And friendships with boys are a smart and great way to get to know them, very well, as a potential dating partner, in the future. Who knows, you may find out that he might 'not' be the one you will want to date, someday. Take your time and nuture the friendships, you have for now. That's pretty much all you can do. Good luck, hun.
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reader, lillymay  +, writes (4 March 2009):
 hello there,
it sounds as if he does like u but to be sure u have to ask.it will never become clear if no one makes the first move.
from what u have said about yourself it sounds as tho he doesnt want to step over any bondarys.so,how do u feel,is it strong enough to want to get involved emotionally or do u want to keep him as a close friend?
the thing is there is no point in going forward in the relationship if u are not willing 4 it 2 become more serious.
it sounds very possible that he likes u just as much as u like him,so what do u have to lose,go 4 it.
if u feel to shy to talk face to face,write him a letter and take your time writing it.good luck,please let me no how it turns out 4 u.
lillymay x
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