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*nonymouscici
writes:i have a boyfriend and we have been in this relatonship for almost a year now. but i cheated in him once and i never told him anything about it. i think that he suspect it but im not sure. but now i have a friend who i have gotten really close to. its more than a friendship. just yesterday i waz at his house and we waz really close to having sex but i have feelings for him. everytime i see him i feel happy but i didnt do it. so wat can i do to avoid these feelings. i love my boyfriend a lot but i have feelings for my friend. i think i want to have sex with my friend but i dont want to hurt my boyfriend. please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymouscici +, writes (17 March 2010):
anonymouscici is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys but i do love my bofriend. im going to have to stop the friendship
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 March 2010):
 If you don't want to have those feelings, you should stop seeing your friend.
Out of sight , out of mind. Have less contact with him and spend more time with your b/f.Focus back your attentions on your b/f.
You cannot have the cake and eat it as well.
You need to choose one over the other. Having both is unfair to those guys.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 March 2010):
I will tell you now you do not love your boyfriend. You just don't. If you did, you wouldn't have cheated, and you wouldn't be thinking about cheating now. You don't love him. You have him there for comfort. Please, for the sake of your boyfriend, end it now with him and focus on what you want with your life. Because if your boyfriend finds out you've cheated, or if you cheat again and he finds out, you will hurt him more. If you loved him, you just wouldn't be doing this. Please let him find a woman who does love him. And you find someone who is more suitable for you.
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reader, DannyB  +, writes (17 March 2010):
 you are just gonna have to choose and to be honest just stop fooling around with other guys because sooner or later your boyfriend will find out and its going to hurt even more for him. so either choose your boyfriend or leave him for your friend you like because its not right when someone you care lies behind your back
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