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Love, lust, flirting or just friendship?

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Question - (7 March 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 March 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello

I wonder if you could help plz

I’m 15 and go to school. Recently two older girls (16) I feel has been flirting with me, and I must say I find them, well one especially so attractive, and has a lovely personality.

My question is based on what I’m about to state; do you think they both/one fancy me? They're really nice girls but I don’t know they are being friendly, or more than?

Basically every time I’m sitting working during break girl 1 I shall call her comes and sits and chats with me (often complementing me), crosses her legs every two seconds, fidgets, looks me in the eyes with a smile, always smiles at me plays with her hair etc.

Her friend is sometimes alike but not as much (well until today).

Today me and my friend where sat together and girl 1 came over as always (she is a bit friendly with my friend also). I was a bit flirty with her then her phone rang and she said ‘oh, get lost!’ I questioned her comment and it was her ex-bf trying to contact her. Later she was like ‘oh I would love a bf’.

Later on her friend (girl 2 we shall call her) came and sat with us, she was very nice etc. Then girl 1 was saying to girl 2 ‘oh I love hanging round with these boys etc’, they agreed together etc. Then girl 2 wished to use my computer, I gave her privacy and she was very impressed etc liked my mannerism to her. Then I was looking at something finished, then she asked me something about what I was just looking at, and not being cheesy but I forgot what I had just read because I was just so attracted to girl 2, basically I have never had a gf and these girls well girl 2 are just stunning (I would think well out my league to be honest). She laughed and knew she was distracting me (not intentionally).

Then girl 1 started complementing our friendships (me and my friends and hers) and saying how all four of us got on and how we find we are alike and how not many get on with us at school and we don’t with them. Because not sounding arrogant but at my school people are really immature and perverted and disruptive or on drugs etc.

The flirting continued and then the bell rang and they were like ‘oh bye boys, I guess that’s today’s session other lol, cya around, have a nice day’.

They both kind of do know me and my fiend as we have worked with them in school projects etc.

Thanks!

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (7 March 2008):

DoubleM agony auntYeah, well, you're getting along quite well with them - what is the question? Go with it, smile a lot, look them in the eyes and ask for a kiss (if okay in the situation). Be confident, proud and act sexy. But you are too young for real sexual activity quite yet - keep it at kissing, maybe some fondling and hugging for awhile.

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