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writes:I have been married for 7 years and I have not been good to my wife. I want to work things out but everytime I try I screw up. I have made my wife's life hell ever since I got back from Iraq. My question is what do I do? Do I keep going down this road or do I set her free? I try but keep screwing up day after day. Can you help me. I still love her, but am lost... Reply to this Question
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reader, love-him  +, writes (7 March 2008):
 HEY!!
You are so very brave and our country are proud of you xx you should try and talk to a councillor about your problems and hopefully that will help your relationship..
WELL DONE and GOOD LUCK :)!! Feel free to mail me about anything x x
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (7 March 2008):
 Please realize that you have been through a lot when you served in Iraq. That was a big sacrifice. I am sure you came back with some issues and you need to try to find a way to work those out. Do you have anyone you can talk to? Somewhere you're not feeling good enough and you are pushing your wife away kind of in a subconcious way. If you could find the root cause, you can then work on that and the rest will fall into place.
You want to be able to work things out with your wife and that is the best start you could have. You have come here to this site and asked us for help, that is also a good start. Now that you realize you need help we all would love for you to find it. None of us here are in a position to help you without knowing more what is going on and even then, we'd be amatures and I think you need someone who understands what you've been through.
Like Double M, I too commend you and thank you and honor you for your service to our country. God Bless you and your wife and your marriage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): I would say go to a counciler and get help where they can help you where you weeknesses are for you guys to be able to work out your relationship. These people are experts so they can tell you or help you which directions to go. ALso, in the mean time think before you say or do something and act upon it only if you think she is not going to be mad. If you keep on doing the same thing, one day she will get so tired and can't take it anymore so she will either pack up her stuff and leave or she will kick you out!
Good Luck!!!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (7 March 2008):
 Does the military offer any counseling help for you? Take advantage of any help offered to deal with this, and thank you for serving our nation. You are a national pride, not a screw-up. Show your wife love now . . .
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