A
female
age
30-35,
* gr8 frnd..
writes:I've been in a relationship with a guy who is 5 years older than me for about a year. Due to our age difference we were never verbally intimate. We also indulged in sex about 5 months ago and since then whenever we are together alone we have sex.I know he loves me and I too love him but recently I felt that I was betraying my dad's faith so the next time we met I tried to stop but he was really aggresive (he never is otherwise) and we had sex and this time it was a hard one but just the day after that when we met he hardly touched me... and if I ask him what's wrong he says nothing... Please help me... tell me how to know his mind...It's urgent... please help me... Reply to this Question
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reader, wonderingcat  +, writes (19 April 2009):
 Do you live in India? What is the legal age of consent in India? Is there a law that protects children against harm? Is there a support group in your town?Central Helpline Numbers http://www.nehelpline.netHandle rape victims with sensitivity, AIDWA tells police http://www.hindu.com/2004/02/13/stories/2004021311290600.htm/Your marriage traditions are somewhat different from the western countries, but violence against women (and children) are basic human rights. If your family love you, they will provide the best support for you. But I would suggest that you contact the helpline above first and see what advice they give you. Issues on violence against women and children are still quite challenging in developing countries like India. Your boyfriend may not have realized this already, that he is actually committing a crime. Having said that, his behaviour in ignoring you like that is also not acceptable. Good luck. And please take good care of yourselfCat
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