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writes:I have been with my bf for 9yrs.We have a normal relationship,we love eachother no matter what and definatly want to be together forever. What he dosnt know is that ive been tempted to cheat on him!Im not looking for a new relationship in any way im simply physically attracted to them..Its a flat out sexual attraction.Theres absolutly NOTHING wrong with our sex life the way it is now.He TOTALLY satisfies me and knows what i like so i have NO complaints in that department what so ever. For some reason im finding myself thinking of these guys sexually and have been extremly tempted to act upon it! What do I do?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (23 January 2007):
 No one who TOTALLY loves someone will be tempted to cheat, period. Break up with your boyfriend so he can find true love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007):
I don't understand why so many people in life choose to be in monogamous (one person) relationships if they want to be with other people?
If you don't have feelings where you feel you want to be dedicated to one person, then don't get in to those kind of relationships.
You don't have to try and be like you think everyone else is. Be yourself. If you do you won't get in to these situations which you know are wrong.
The choice is yours, you are either the sort of person who is dedicated and faithful to one person, or you are the sort of person who doesn't want that kind of relationship, at least right now.
Maybe you need to do some soul searching to find out what you really want.
Whatever you do though - don't leave these feelings alone because you will end up cheating on your boyfriend and if you love him at all you will know how much that will destroy him. All the best with whatever you choose to do :)
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reader, Natalie...x +, writes (23 January 2007):
 Hmm..thats quite a hard one, I would say you should wait if you do make a decision to cheat...this might just be a little phase you're going through, you could do a little bit of harmless flirting until it passes. My advice would be not to cheat, you have someone you really love and they love you back, that can be hard to find and why throw it away? You might not ever get anything as special as that again...hope this helped xxx
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