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writes: hi i was writing to get some tips. i'm 15 and it seems alot of people my age are giving 'hichys' or love bites to their partners. and that's what i'm worried about the thing is i don't know how to give them :S. i'm worried about doing it wrong when the time comes or even hertinging her. if anyone has got anytips it would be good. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 November 2011):
doing them on purpose is gross... I'm not going to teach you how to do them... if they happen naturally they are in need of cover up.
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reader, Hugh.J +, writes (7 November 2011):
It doesn't have to be on the neck, or anywhere normally visible - try a more personal area, usually covered by clothing......
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reader, N91 +, writes (7 November 2011):
Why would you want to give one? They look horrible and very cheap. Can't really imagine many girls who would enjoy having one!
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (7 November 2011):
Personally I think love bites are awful and the total oppisite of classy but I think thats an age think because I didnt think that when I was your age.It really is as simple as lightly biting and sucking the skin long enough to leave a mark.Just remember before you let anyone give you a love bite, you cant hide them and they can be seen by everyone, including parents, just a little tip.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2011): A hicky is when you suck the surface of the skin hard enough to fetch blood to the top. It settles there and turns into a purple bruise, but the real advice is that they really dont look nice on anybody regardless of how old you are, if I were you, dont let someone give you one, they look tacky
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reader, Shadow Rose +, writes (6 November 2011):
Well, If you're 15, that's not really appropriate for someone your age anyways. It usually isn't something you want to give someone, because people dont want to see hickeys on 15 year olds. (or 18 year olds, either, I got in trouble for getting a hickey!)
Even when you get a little older, it's really not that awesome. When you're still a minor, it's troublesome, and when you're an adult, it's not worth it.
Just focus on kissing, and you should be fine. Trust me.
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reader, charlotte19 +, writes (6 November 2011):
Oh gosh love bites hickeys whatever you wish to call them there ugly anyway. But if you really want to give one you just suck on the skin on her neck. You will grow out of doing things like this as you get older there the novelty of lovebites will wear off x
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