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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:my girlfriend has a lot of male friends they buy her gifts with I love you inscriptions on the gifts and each time i react she ask that i stay away from coming to her place we only meet at church i called her for a break up but she didn't want a break up. she claim she want to pray more she spoke to my boss and friends about how deeply she is in love with me and they all ask me to give her the so called time to pray and she never stop those friends what should i do?
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (27 May 2011):
 I would simply smile sadly at your boss and friends and tell them that alas, the relationship is not working out, no matter how hard you pray. Some things are not meant to be, you say, and me with this woman is just one of those things. Then you very quietly cut her out of your life and ignore her other than to nod at her in church. If you don't wish to be with her, don't be with her. It isn't up to other people to decide whom you shall and shall not date. It is up to you, take back your power.
If it isn't working, it isn't working. And her accepting love tokens from other men is as clear a sign as a thunderbolt from above that she isn't prepared for an exclusive and committed relationship with you. Just find your inner strength and use it. Smile sadly and sweetly and say "goodbye."
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