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writes:I had this very odd very feeling that i dont understand. Its very vague. Everytime im very happy and keeps on laughing with friends it turns me out to be sad and lonely when im alone. I feel like crying and sometimes it ends me up into tears. I really feel sad. I can feel a deep hollow feeling inside. Sometimes it makes me think that maybe, i need a partner. I've been alone for a couple of years already. Im already 25 and me and my ex-boyfriend just broke up 3 years ago. I've been involved to someone else but it just lasts for a month. I fell in love both the two of them. I still want to be with one of them. Everytime i feel this kind of depression, what came into my mind is that im hurt, im alone. I need someone i can lean on, i can talk with and gives me comfort when i felt like being alone. What should i do? Should i talked to those people who makes me feel this way? Im afraid. Any advice is very much appreciated.
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reader, I care  +, writes (17 May 2008):
 To me it sounds like your really depressed and your giving yourself to much time to think so go out and get a hobby or do stuff that makes you happy like take a painting class anything really to get your mind off things and keep you busy if you join a class or an art group or something you'll be sure to make new friends and create new interests as well. I wouldn't contact these people I would just focus on fulfilling your life with all that makes you happy and that helps you grow as an individual and the rest will fall into place.Best of luck to you and do try a painting course it helps me when I'm feeling a bit blue.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2008): I feel like that sometimes. It's lonely without a partner to love and care about. But it can be lonely being with someone who you don't care about, but are using to keep the dark times at bay.
Your old enough and single, probably if you start looking around, there's already a guy who's interested, but didn't think you were ready. If not, you need to be proactive about seeking out guys who interest you and share your hobbies, interests and values. If not for romance then for close friendship.
Failing that pick up a hobby and devote your attention to it. Write a list of 50 things you intend to do before you die, and then do every thing on the list. Including trying to date a millionaire, adopting a pet, speaking gibberish for the whole day, walking backwards.
You only have one life to live. A man may not necessarily bring happiness, if he's not the right one. Try to find things that bring the excitment and meaning to your life, that a new love might bring.
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