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writes:Background: Our relationship was born out of a triangle and sadly had a turbulent birth. There were months of tension and passion. She is a professional and this last year and a half I believe we have had it good. We don't live together, we are a weekend couple. However back at the beginning she needed space and we tried and it lasted only three days and nights until I broke the curfew but I recognised later I was scared of losing her and bombarded her with poems and songs. The space issue has come up again though this time in a text message and phone call. I said take out whatever time you want and when you are ready for a chat call me. I have the same fears welling up and a host of poems and songs to send but after two weeks have resisted sending them. Will she feel that I don't care about her any more. Should I communicate in some way.???
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (18 April 2009):
 Good! Don't send them EVER, make a book of all your works and if you get married, use one for your speech and the rest keep safe until your 10 year anniversary then give her the book.
That way is sweet but not over powering and if she ever doubts your love, you can give her a preview of your works.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have not sent text and poems this time, I have them prepared but not sending them.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (17 April 2009):
I think Bombarding someone with Poems and songs is far too much. You are scaring this lady away! I think Bombarding is a great term to use - when under heavy artillery fire (bombardment) the one thing you want to do is keep your head down and not get out of your hole! Your songs and poems are getting like this, too much too often. Once in a while is fine and you can live with, like a loud bang that just turns out to be a pretty fire work.
You can get in touch with her, try a simple text message saying "Hi how are you?" not a whole sonnet! Don't smother her, I know it's because you love her, but it's too much.
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