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anonymous
writes:Well it all started when I became close with this guy in one of my classes at college, I'll try cut the story slightly. :) Well we began talking and soon were quite good friends, he'd sit with me and my group of friends (who are all girls) sometimes, and it was really nice to just have someone there to talk to. As time went on he spent all his time with me and my friends, and we began to hang out more.At a party (we were both slightly drunk) he asked me to sit with him so I did, and he kept kissing my forehead and cheek etc, and he then went to kiss me. However I pulled away saying I couldn't do it, and he has a girlfriend and I couldn't do it to her, although if he was single I'd kiss him, and I find him attractive. He said he felt the same, and he had more respect for me for not getting him into trouble. That was the end of that! I thought I had a crush on him at this point but thought maybe I was just being stupid! However over the next few months, we became closer and closer and my feelings for him grew. One night while at my friends house, I told my girl friends that I really,really liked him. There response wasn't what I expected. They'd all known before me! The story of course is much longer, but I don't want to bore you all so anyway, we both hang out more, having movie days, hanging out at college and generally having a laugh! He was now part of my "group" of friends, and hung around with us all the time! When he once came round mine for a movie day, we seemed to have a few "moments" when we were mucking around play fighting, we'd just sort of look at each other and stop for a moment. Then at my birthday, he was getting ready to leave my house and catch his train home and we were hugging and kissing me on the cheek, touching my bum :L and again, nothing was ever mentioned.Then I had my girl friends over and the guy we got a take away and had some drinks. He insisted comig at 5 although my friends weren't coming till 7. We were just play fighting again, but on my bed and we just layed on my bed talking etc. Then my other friend came over and we started drinking, and by the time my other friends were there we were pretty drunk. I was sitting like inbetween his legs and he had his arms around me while we watched television, and then we were all joking about how we secretly had something going on, and then we both joked how we were gonna get it on in the other room. So we walked to the other room and shut the door (just to joke with the others) Then he hugged me, and we were just talking then I went to walk out, and he put his arm on my cheek and he went in for a kiss so, so did I.. even knowing it was wrong.. but I've never had butterflies like it! Then he moved away. "/ So for the rest of the evening, we were cuddling etc. Then at the end of the evening he started getting snappy and rude at me, and I was confused...See I'm so confused, I'd say I was in love with him.My friends say we're ridiculously flirty, and I know we are. We have moments too, especially when we've had anything to drink and deep down I think he has slight feelings for me. But I'm not sure, when he talks about his girlfriend he just talks about how "perfect" their relationship is, but if you start asking questions he lets off signs he isn't as happy as he sounds.To be honest I'm just wondering what other people think, and people who have had the same experiences :D xx
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reader, lilred112  +, writes (6 February 2011):
 Honestly hun.. since he never mentioned anything about leaving his gf. It seems as if he wants only one thing which is sex. Guys commonly gravitate toward the oppsite sex especially when she is beautiful and is showing some interest. The fact that he starts being snappy seems like a give away.. that he is just putting on a front to get some.. if you know what I mean.. do some research if you really like this guy, express how you feel.. and ask questions about his gf.. and what are his motives.. sounds far fetched from love though hun.. hope this helps..
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