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writes:I have been dating a girl long distance now for 5 months. 2 days after i came back from one of my trips to go see her, she broke up with me. It has now been a few weeks and I can't help but constantly think about her. I still want to be friends but she doesn't want to. She used to tell me she never loved anyone like she loved me, now she just doesn't want anything to do with me. I still want to be her friend and keep her in my life. What should I do? I have been trying to shut her out completely, but I am always thinking about her, I am always wanting to call and text her.
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reader, Jasmine42  +, writes (2 January 2010):
Don't call her anymore. Although it may be difficult for you. Try to keep yourself busy and find something to do with your free time. She has obviously met someone else or may be confused about her feelings. Trust me, give her about two weeks and she will call you to see how you are doing. Don't take the call and let her wonder what are you up to, then call her several days later and she will want you back immediately. Make her think you are busy not thinking about her, and she will go crazy thinking about you. Unfortunately, it is a game that we play for these relationships. But remember, he who calls first.....loses!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 December 2009):
You have to respect the fact she doesn't want contact. The more you try to make contact, the longer it will take to get over her. Give yourself time and space, and focus on your own life. She's not the one for you.
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