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41-50,
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writes:ok i met this lovely guy and we seem great together, we live far apart but get to see each other on holidays. were both in love and he makes me feel amazing and he do anything for me as i would for him..ive had a bad past when it comes to relationship so i have some reserves about getting hurt, i never thought my exs would hurt me but they did in the end..im trying so hard to put all my trust in him as so far he has never given me any reason to doubt him..maybe it seems too good to be true ? and im maybe just trying to pick faults..i have a great job and he has a good one the perks look good on my side / but what about when we decide to move would you give up the best job you have had that makes you happiest youve ever been to move to be with your partner ? i dont find myself very attractive either so i have some insecurities as well which dont help the situation at all.i wish i was nieve and could enjoy this to its full instead of worrying about what ifs..i sometimes wonder if i will wake up from this dream and when i do wake up in a morning and he replys to my messages it makes it all the more real and wonderful..WHY the problems ? im making myself go crazy..instead of being blissfully in love.i have no doubt that our distance gives me a lil frustration and insecurities, but in my mind i think he maybe the ONE jst thinking about it makes my heart races and butterflys..hrm so many thoughts giving me a headache lol..any advice on someone who been threw this would be most thankfull..KT thanks for all those who post xxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2008): I went through this one time in the past. We were really in love. Well the distance started getting to us but we fought with everything to keep it going. It went good for a while till one new years when I called them to tell them happy new year. My life shattered. The person I loved on the other end replied with I loved you. I hope u do have a happy new year but without me ur no longer real to me. We had been planning on moving in with each other but niether one of us would give our jobs up. In the end we lost everything. I finally got in touch with them about a year ago n we talk all the time. Were the best of friends n I know we could be more but not possible because were still not willing to leave our jobs. Decide what's more important. Follow ur heart. Good luck sweetie
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