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*pieldeangel
writes: Hi, so me and my girlfriend are living a forbidden love. Both of us are madly in love, but were of different age 5 yrs apart I'm graduated from high school she still has two yrs to go. I recently moved to the city two hours away. We started tlkng after I had moved up here a couple of days before our bday (we have da same bday) about 3 days after it we were official. The first time I went to c her her parents found out bout us and kept her away from me. Living so far away and no way of seeing her we must find a way to c each. I'm askng for help please if anyone has any idea how we can see each other so that we may atleast b able to share our first kiss and hold in the embrace that we will never forget l. We have hide our love from the world for fear of being found out and ripped apart again. So it must b in secret although there is a couple of our friends we trust to keep it a secret. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, pieldeangel +, writes (21 November 2011):
pieldeangel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOh yeah definitely were not going to live here were movng down to where she's going to college in two years I told her not to put her life on hold just for me I want her to follow her dreams as I am as well.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (21 November 2011):
So wait.
She is 16, no matter how "mature" she seems she is still a youngster, far from adult.
She needs to finish school and think about the future, not just about moving in with a guy. She needs to have some kind of hopes and dreams for her future, as far as education, work, life - other then just moving in with an older guy who will take care of her like her parents did.
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reader, pieldeangel +, writes (21 November 2011):
pieldeangel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe are 16 and 21 so we only have to wait two years till we can live together
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (21 November 2011):
What are you ages?
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reader, pieldeangel +, writes (21 November 2011):
pieldeangel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the answer and yes we are also just waiting for her to b of age not long to wait and we are going to move in with each other. we probly talk to them after the heat goes down a bit. Thanks again
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (20 November 2011):
There really is not a lot that you can do about this, I guess she is still a minor so her parents are still responsible for her. If your love is strong well then wait until she is an adult and then she is free to do what she likes. If she goes behind her parents back now they will lose all trust and respect. Ask her to talk to them and tell them how she feels and ask them to give you a chance.
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