| A
female
,
anonymous
writes: My husband has an anger management problem -- over the smallest thing he flares up and becomes verbally abusive, never accepting what he has done wrong. I can't handle it anymore -- what do I do? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, mystify +, writes (3 January 2006):
 when he is calm and being loving , asuming he is sometimes , pick a good moment and tell him you love him but you cant understand why he does this and that all you want is to both be happy, wjat im trying to say is pick a good time and delicatly tell him how you feel, ask him if he want to be happy too then suggest ways to go about it if he would feel threatened by anger management with the focus being so clearly on him then maybe marriage guidance,
but if he wont there are many support groups for women in you situation you can go to talk , share experiences , solutions etc
good luck
A
male
reader, pzeller +, writes (31 December 2005):
 You say you can't handle it anymore, but in reality it is he who must "handle it." If he doesn't, it may lead beyond verbal abuse.
Make it clear to him NOW that this behavior is not acceptable, that he's hurting you emotionally, and that he needs to seek help - and then make him follow through.
He's not only hurting you emotionally, it's likely he's hurting emotionally as well. It's difficult for a man to ask for help (to admit weakness), but he must.
If he refuses to get help, and cannot bring his anger under control, leave. Don't allow yourself to be a victim.
...............................
|
