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30-35,
*asterNobodii
writes:so i'm 22 living in a small town in southern/central Canada and i got this new girlfriend recently! she's rocking my world, about to turn 20 herself, and the relationship has just been taking me off my rocker every turn we take, it's been a month and it's one of the best relationships i've Ever had!but to the point, about 2 weeks ago i stayed up and helped her clean her apartment one night, (literally All Night) she passed out about 5am, and i stayed up to finish the job, she woke up and we went for breakfast, we came back and went to bed, waking up about 10 hours later we decided to try and have sex, but to both our surprises it took almost 15 minutes to make him stand up, and then he "died" almost right away, do note : i may have caught something during that one night, i had a mild fever (100 at most for 5 days), my wisdom teeth both started coming in again after a brief hiatus and man are they sore, and i've been biting my tongue ALOT, but it's swelling up like little blisters, mother THOUGHT it was herpes, but doctor said "it looks suspicious to be herpes" (so he doesn't think it is, and he IS the doctor)i've had this problem since, i haven't been able to jack off OR have Any kind of fun with her :( we spent 45 minutes last night alone trying to make him stand up, and just now another 30 of my own time at my place with no luck, what's going on, how can i fix this without any herbal or medicinal pills?i'm jobless (have been for 2 years) getting by financially, not Really stressing over anything Except my inability to perform, yes i am a male *-* seeking help i feel is required. elaborated? could it be because of my sore tongue and mouth? i've been clamping my teeth alot, but minmal headaches, please help ?
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reader, Daniel the love doctor  +, writes (9 August 2011):
 Well it may be a medical reason for everything that's going on. My advice to you is to get a second, third, or even fourth opinion from a doctor. I also believe stress could play a HUGE factor into your inability to perform. You may want to..1. Try relaxing. Go to a place where you could be alone and meditate for 5-10 mintues. Get plenty or rest, and even ask your girl for a nice massage.2. Try kegeling. There's plenty of information on the internet on how to kegal for men. The benefits: longer lasting erections, strong ejaculations, and better performances.Be sure to also eat right (mainly food that's rich in vitamins and antioxidants)and drink plenty of water- as this can also help with your mood.Hope this helps! :^)
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