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writes:I like light porn, just stripping where I can just look at the human body in its perfection. I see a lot of straight girls like girl on girl, i mean A LOT. And so do i, or just a girl stripping is so damn sensual. It is absolutely gorgeous and a turn on but so is a man with a gorgeous body and a big penis. I just keep thinking, y can i look at this chick and get turned on but in real life get all cramped up if im in a situation where a chick wants to touch me. One time I was like im on a mission to go find chicks to kiss (i never kissed one) b/c if i can watch a girl strip then i guess i should just kiss one and get it over with. So i go out, and therse these hot chicks at these clubs and im like uhhh i guess i shud ask one to kiss me lol and i felt a.) stupid b.)WEIRD c.) it was so forced and i just thought it was so silly. I never attempted that again and hav no interest to do so...but then y are we turned on by chicks when were clearly straight and WANT a man caressing/kissing us. I try so hard to imagine kissing a girl or touching her and it freaks me out.i guess i just need some reassurance, how many of u girls watch girls or guys strip in porn, enjoy both, but at the end of the day want a man by ur side?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni even get turned on by my own body. I really think its a visual thing vs a romantic/touching thing. i never fantasied about touching chicks or want to. just cuz im turned on by myself doesnt mean i want myself lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): I think you may like the sensuality of it more so than liking women, but either way there is no right or wrong answer here.
This has been discussed before and I think the aunts/uncles gave some good advice on this topic:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/if-i-watch-lesbian-porn-does-that-mean.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): Girl I feel you! I watch girl on girl videos too, and get extremely turned on and sometimes even wonder whether or not I'm a lesbian. But then I imagine getting freaky with a girl and its just not the same ...I guess its just nice and relaxing to look at, and have fantasies but when it comes to the actual deed its not as exciting...like maybe things are more exciting when you WANT them and are curious...but when they're presented to you its just blah, the mystery behind it is over. I too prefer my boyfriend caressing and kissing me. just don't worry and keep exploring! You're certainly not alone :)
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