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writes: Hey,I saw this site and Im at the stage where I kinda need a little advice, so im hoping i can get some help here!Basically, the other day me and my gf decided to call it a day and also to stop talking to each other as well. The main reason behind it was that she said her job at GAP meant she only found out her hours a week before she would work them i.e, her hours for the wk beginning 11th April would be found out week beginning 4th april...which basically meant she couldnt plan any thing too far ahead. Another factor is, she lives in Sheffield and I live in London..a problem thats 196 miles big! She's also trying to do a fashion course at uni in September so she has to do a lot of portfolio work. I said to her that I wanted time to see her and that I would do anything to see her..I offerred to go up for the night on her bday and leave Sunday morning when she went to work..she said I couldn;t because she was going out with her family. so, after my decsion to call it quits, she said she was so angry and upset because she couldn't get through the day not speaking to me. Iresponded by saying I couldn't get through this relationship not seeing her and that we had to compromise. She said she couldn't control her work hours and said we would have plenty of time to see each other in June. I said that wasn't good enough and ended it.The question I would like answered is, was I wrong in finishing with her? Should I have given her the benefit of the doubt until June? I can't stop thinking about her, but this was on Wednesday and it's Friday now and I haven't called her yet. So please help if you can and tell me whether I was hasty in what I done, thank you!!confused london guy Reply to this Question
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reader, AMY1972 +, writes (3 April 2005):
Hi, The only person who can answer that is you. You miss her, which is natural but it has not been long. Can you carry on in a relationship when so much is stacked against you? You need to think about it. Do you want to move on? Do you love and care for her? Can you wait until June? Your heart will answer these questions for you. It was after all your heart and your feelings that called it all off. I don't think that it would be a good idea to call her until you have worked it out for yourself first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2005): Visit her and talk in person about how you feel. Trying to sort it out by phone probably just won't work.
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