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writes: Advice please !Can anyone help me to deal with the loss of a loved one? Although we were never in a relationship, we had an extremely close and personal friendship - we were in contact every day and all our good/bad times , our high and lows , we told each other first...sadly her partner had had enough of this and gave her an ultimatum - either him or me? We had no choice but to end our friendship for her family's sake - she has 2 small kids and has been through one painful marital breakup already. I now feel lost and , with hindsight , realise now I loved her more than anyone ever, including my current partner. I'm very upset a lot and it's hard to cover the pain up. How can I sort myself out and move on please?Jay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2005): You need to tell her how you feel, you never know, she might feel the same. There is nothing worse than losing the one you love, keep hold of her, even if it is just as a friend.
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reader, AMY1972 +, writes (2 April 2005):
Hi Jay, You are grieving and all that you can do is let it run its natural course. It is painful I know, but time does heal. Do you know if her husband is the one who collects the mail. If not then write her a letter telling her that you are sorry for what has happened, that you miss her. She may reply.Be strong and try and get through this. Good luck
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