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writes: im 17 and I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years we were very very close. Over the past year He has been getting very angry and has a quick temper on him, I know these outbursts are not aimed at me but they are still upsetting. I've talked to him about these on various occasions and said that I cant cope with them and he has stopped for a while but then goes back to his old ways. Recently Ive met a guy that really understands me and I can tlk to him about the things going on in my relationship. However, my bf has taken this the wrong way and thinks im going out with him. Putting these accusations together with his anger, my stress from exams and my eatting problems at the moment, I am in a state and really need some advice from an outside perpective- not family, friends. I've said to my bf I need time to sort myself and pull myself together, sort out my not eating and sleeping problems before we can try again. He says that he can help me do this but I think this is something I need to do by myself. I know if we try again now, ill only ruin things because im upset and not in the right frame of mind. I really love him. Also he thinks im having a break to be with this other guy.Please help me!!
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reader, chazx  +, writes (26 July 2006):
 Hello Babe
i understand what you mean by all the stress because i have just done my exams and im having a bit of a hard time as well and family, friends and boyfriends trying to add more stress on doesnt help.
yes you are doing the right thing by saying you want a break to sort yourself out and i think you should stick with that decision dont go back till you are ready.
whereas the insecurity from your boyfriend is bad that also needs to be sorted after you get yourself sorted out ok.
and not eating and sleeping is very bad for you.
you need to eat whether it is just something little everyday to begin with p[lease start eating before you really hurt your body.
Good Luck and i hope everything goes well.
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