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writes:I need some advice, is there anyway of making sex less painful the first time?Im 16 and in a new relationship, we wanted to sleep together the other day but i told him to stop because the pain was awful.Im scared i'll never be able to sleep with anyone!Any tips? Reply to this Question
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (3 October 2007):
 You just have to really really relax it does get better and less painful i promise just make sure your really wet and if your hymen isnt broken see if he can finger you gently till it breaks if he is gentle enough it doesnt sound as painful as i make it sound, just take it slowly and make him inch himself inside you slowly
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reader, rcn +, writes (3 October 2007):
 I still wonder if anyone has parents to ask these questions too? I think the first post is absolutely right. I was my exwife's first. It took a while. It was painful, but the guys caring about the pain and being easy can be just as beneficial as using lube.
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reader, drastic knowledge +, writes (3 October 2007):
 well make sure you are relaxed and are really wet or lubed down there which ever
but take it slow and take in the moment and try not thinking too much
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