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writes:I don't know, I am in a very awkward situation. All my friends think that I give off lesbian vibes and the reason is all the girls fall head over heels for me.. one of my friends introduced me to this gay guy and he couldn't stop staring at me, later on he told this friend that I looked stunning and he felt like dating a girl after a long time.I am glad they find me attractive but lesbian vibes.. now what the hell is that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlol missy why would i wish for compliments on this dear cupid site..not retarded..and if u read my post i said he felt like dating a girl not that he wanted to go date someone right awayif i did get flattered by all this i would not post this question as a problemand the answer to your question if i look like a tomboy or not then i am soo far way from looking like one..all my friends think i am the girliest girl they have ever seen
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): I get the "lesbian vibes" thing a fair amount as well, mainly because I've chosen a profession perceived as "masculine" and most of the women who work in my field DO happen to be lesbian. When I cut my hair short for work...it was on! I'm not attracted to women, never have been, never will be. Don't worry about it, just politely explain to any interested women that you don't swing that way. If you're dating a guy make sure your friends know him and so on...people will figure out soon enough that you like guys, not girls. If your friends know you are straight they will be able to run interference for you as well. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): Well it sounds to me like you, miss are fishing for compliments :)Gee, I don't know, maybe you are just so fabulous and pretty that you inspire lust in everyone, even gay guys :DSometimes, in my opinion, a girl has a very androgynous look, and is such a perfect balance between masculine and feminine that she is considered universally appealing, to both men and women, and people who consider themselves attracted to the opposite sex. Are you a tomboy? Do you have a boyish figure? I wouldn't get too flattered if a gay boy claims you converted him, no-one is so pretty that they can change the sexual preferences of someone. But I also wouldn't worry about the lesbian vibes. Maybe you should try playing up your feminine qualities if you feel you are being perceived as too androgynous.
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